I just started my first real job after college, and I’m struggling with work-life balance. My boss expects me to answer emails at all hours, and my friends make me feel guilty when I’m too exhausted to go out. I want to set boundaries, but I’m afraid of looking lazy or losing my social life. How do I balance it all without burning out?”
Dear Fearful,
I wish I could feel sorry for you but you have entered life as an adult. It’s eye opening and confusing. Priorities rather than boundaries are needed. You have graduated from college. Coming out of college life to real life can be eye-opening. The job must be your #1 priority. The job requirements were lined out when you took the job. Good employees are difficult to find these days. Do a great job, keep the boss happy and socialize when you can. No need to feel guilty. You are officially an adult and good opportunities will happen as you work your way up the ladders. Believe me, this is not a burn out situation.
Jeffery W. Fogg II is a dedicated writer and storyteller with a passion for uncovering compelling narratives and shedding light on the human experience. He has a strong background in research and narrative development, honed through years of crafting stories that connect with diverse audiences. His writing is driven by a desire to engage readers, bring attention to important issues, and contribute to a well-informed community. Drawing on his ability to find depth in everyday moments, Jeffery aims to deliver insightful journalism that resonates with readers and sparks meaningful conversations.
Jeffery’s journey as a writer has been shaped by his diverse life experiences and educational background. He holds a B.A. in Religious Studies from the University of Colorado, where he explored cultural narratives and wrote a thesis on rural religious movements in the neo-Rustbelt. His curiosity about human stories led him to pursue a Juris Doctor at Washburn University School of Law, where he deepened his skills in research and advocacy. Through it all, Jeffery’s life has been guided by a commitment to learning, a love for storytelling, and a desire to share authentic voices from all walks of life.
